[Yeah here we go. Jun knows he's in trouble. He's really trying to listen, he is. It's not like he wants to upset Varian like this. He doesn't like doing it at all! But...

He feels completely out of his depth here. ]

What do you mean by more gravitas? Do I ask you to sit down, or make sure to use proper punctuation?

[Emotional expression isn't easy for him on a GOOD day. He sighs, feeling like an asshole for even asking these questions]

I'm sorry, I'm not trying to be dismissive of your feelings.